HI YOU GUYS!!!!!!! HEHEHEHE.
no i am not finally updating my blog because i'm sad hehehe. I'm actually feeling pretty ~fly~ today. whaddup.
I think I'm going to say some offensive, harsh things in this post so if you get offended easily, you may leave.
Would you rather date an intelligent, decent looking man, or a dumb hunk? Honestly.
2 years ago, I would've answered dumb hunk. Just because I was that shallow 2 years ago. If you picked the first one, yay. If you picked the second one, shame on you. I mean yes he's hot but i mean, do you really see a future with him if he's not smart? Lets say if you end up marrying him, you'll have to be the one supporting the whole family while he probably would have a job with minimum wage. OR, what if, you're not the brightest person of the lot as well, and both of you get jobs as cashiers at Mc Donalds. Not saying being a cashier at Mc Donalds is wrong, but well.. okay you get what I mean. And then you and your 3 kids end up living in a small little flat for the rest of your lives. Some people would be happy just the way that is, but I wouldn't. Would you?
Moving on.
I don't get why people don't get their priorities straight. Of course, people have different priorities, but at the age of 15, I see people with their boyfriends/girlfriends/crushes as their first priority. What about your family? What about education? Now I'm not saying this shit like I'm a saint or whatever, but guys, just think about it. How sure are you that you and your boyfriend/girlfriend are going to stay together ay? And why have a boyfriend/girlfriend if you can't get your grades up? And if you have them as your top priority, what if the relationship ends? Does that mean your life is over? You're just going to try to find a rebound to replace that person, and then you neglect everything else even more. *slow claps for you
OK ONE LAST THING.
Having an ambition and being ambitious are two completely different things. Let me google up the definitions for you.
Ambition : The strong desire for personal achievement.
Ambitious : Intended to satisfy high aspirations.
How i look at it is, ambition is the fact that you want to be a particular occupation in the future. Ambitious is you actually trying to achieve it. Keyword in the google definitions, Ambition- desire. Ambitious- intended.
You get it? So I know this certain someone, Bob, I asked Bob about his ambition, he said he wanted to be a doctor. Cool yeah okay a doctor. But then if you look at his results, lets say.. it isn't future-doctor standard. Not even close. He knows. But does he try to improve it? Yes. Does he try his hardest? No. And when he flunks his papers, he shrugs it off. I mean he tries, but he doesn't actually try try. I don't know if I'm making any sense here, but what I mean is that its great to have an ambition. But what's the point if you're not going to try your best to achieve it? What if you don't get a chance to be a doctor, like how you wanted? Would you be disappointed? Well put the blame on yourself for not studying hard enough. And then regret it while you're at your 9-5 job.
And yes, I understand your future isn't all about your exam slips, but of course, if you're lucky, you could end up getting a really good job with a high pay. But think realistically, what if you're unlucky? And yes, I also do understand that just because you get A+s for everything, it won't ensure that you'll have a high pay with a great job. Yes don't have to start with me with all the stories of Steve Jobs or whatever dropping out of school and still being respectful. They're creative, smart, and i still have to say, lucky.
What I'm trying to say is that if you get good results, there's a higher chance of you being more comfortable when you get older compared to you flunking your papers and all.
If you have any other opinions, feel free to leave it in the chatbox on your left that's filled with spammers. I would love to read them.
Alright I'm done here.
